Replace "gay" or "transgender" with "black" and then read that sentence again - who are you to tell a group of people that they just need to accept your intolerance?

This is unacceptable, but only because it should be unacceptable for ANYONE, regardless of sexual orientation, to subject a captive audience to unsolicited bedroom stories. Why not keep your distaste focused where it actually belongs: towards people talking about their sex lives at work? And leave the rest of the queer community, that doesn't make a habit of doing that but have nonetheless been characterized by you as something "not everybody feels comfortable with," out of it? And no, I don't buy for a second that it's only the gays being vulgar at work. A few months ago I flew with a captain who wanted to teach me (got up out of his seat to demonstrate) how to make a girl squirt. The female FA's are sexually harassed probably every day in one form or another by male pilots and passengers. So nice try, but no.