In response to your original question....I'm a somewhat inexperienced regional fo (about 1 year otj) so take it for what it's worth... If you can get there without going into debt for school, can be happy just "making it" for a few years and afterwards realize that the majority, at least for now, are not making it to the big pay, then I say go for it. If you can be happy at a regional Cap's pay (60-75k +/-) and LIVE IN BASE then imo it's a great job. Commuting SUCKS...I had to commute for about 3 months and have 2 small children...I saw my family very little and wouldn't have lasted this long if I didn't get my hometown as base in my 4th month. BTW...
I fly 121, crj, have a VERY understanding and gracious wife that's really helped with surviving the transition from another career. I also love my job, but still listen to the negetives because they are definately there. The key so far for me is being in base. I have averaged 15 days off over the past 4 months and it's been GREAT to be with the family, even though we have very little money to do anything with. Hope that helps