Originally Posted by
DustoffVT
Your local DAV or VFW will have volunteer VSO's. They are excellent at the process, but they don't deal with a lot of aviators so you may have to do a lot of explaining. Also, some state Veterans' Departments have full time paid VSOs who are excellent. I am in Vermont and used the state military affairs people, they were great.
Careful about what gets discussed, and especially written down. You don't want a paper trail anywhere that hints at unreported no-go health conditions.
If it were me, I might even call them anonymously for an initial consult. I'm sure they'd be cool with that.
Again, if you need help get it for sure.