Originally Posted by
highfarfast
Regarding the breadwinner comment, major financial decisions that effect both of us are a both of us decision. Seems strange to me that anyone would do it any other way. But also, this is a two breadwinner household so it would be extra strange to exclude her because I’m “a breadwinner”.
Because I'd laugh in her face and vice versa if we had to get permission to drop 1500 bucks or had an investment idea either of us were going to pursue. I encourage my wife to take risk and start up her own businesses, which she's done. I don't need to be an anchor holding her back. Certainly not letting anyone influence how I'm steering my ship.