You hate commuting so much that you'd rather stay here and not commute instead of working for legacy? Maybe a legacy isn't an option, but I just don't understand your decision making process if you are gonna let your dislike of commuting to keep you here vs a legacy gig.

Why do you hate commuting so much? if you were willing to commute you'd get an extra couple mil in career earnings...

I will do anything to try and avoid spending a third of my life in a hotel by myself when i could spend it at home family/friends.