my wife makes me look like a bum too.

But this is one of the reasons I try not to ***** too much about my life.
we bought our house in college, our debt we do have is very well managed.
she makes life at a regional liveable.

I do feel for some that cannot afford first year pay by themselves. I for one could not have done it without my wife.

But that is how QOL goes for two different people within the same company though.

Reeves