I'd recommend (*) heading to YouTube and watching The Grim Reapers channel.
https://www.youtube.com/@grimreapers
They run all kind of multi-player scenarios on a regular basis. They really geek out on this stuff, including how to set up the ultimate flight sim rig (most of the good equipment comes from abroad).
Stuff like:
YF-23 Black Widow II vs Su-57 Felon: BVR Missile & Dogfight (
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sl13...7iUTDo&index=3)
Could an ExRAAF F/A-18 Hornet Air Wing Beat a Russian Su-35 Air Wing?
Could Taiwan Survive An Aerial First Strike by China?
2025 UK Carrier Group vs 2025 Russian Carrier Group
(*)Saw enough to know I can't go down this rabbit hole and stay married. Insane time suck. These sims are incredible. Head trackers, VR goggles, realistic peripherals, PvP and team games. Whew.