There's no such thing as "I have no choice". There are always choices, just the that certain options are less than ideal..to put it very very mildly. All you can do is believe you made the right one. Sky High values his family and believes that should come first over his taking a risk. That is fine and very repectful. Other guys can see that same situation and think "my family and friends will still be there and support me taking this job, this risk" and that's fine and respectful. Everyone's situation is different and neither should be criticizing the other since neither one knows how the other person sees the world.