Originally Posted by Podracer

If he made an honest mistake, then all that is necessary is a simple "I'm sorry miss/ma'am. I meant no offense." But no, instead the gate agent doubled down and threatened to call airport police. This is an extreme overreaction. This should be in a training video of what NOT to do.

The woman here was calm, soft spoken, and only pointed out that he had misgendered her again, multiple times. When your simple basic request to be acknowledged as a person, is instead greeted with a venemous attitude and threats to call the police, pulling out the phone is not unwarranted. Police threats is an apalling response to asking to be addressed by your gender.