It seems JB and others are not reacting with emotion, again, that is your lense that you are looking thru and forming YOUR opinion on the matter. I don't read JB's or others retorts as being "emotional" to me they are rather cogent and thought out. I have some good books for you to read on psychology and formitive thought that might interst/assist you, I can PM them to you. It might help you out in your struggle to understand that not everyone is going to see thru the same lense as you, and that doesn't make them wrong, or you right.

It is clear you and I have different opinions on matters, that's fine, I respect your position, and you should respect mine. It doens't have to be devisive. If you could open up the apeture a bit you'd see that we may agree on more things than you realize.