Honestly? Grow up. If you're not getting the info you need, you're feeling left out or uninformed or whatever... grow a pair, be an adult, and talk to the other guy until you're both on the same page. I'm riding in the back depending on you to be a professional and get me safely home, and frankly I have zero patience for stuff like this. Seriously you're at a major airline (more or less), act like it.