One of the ways to better appreciate or empathize with someone in this situation is to make it personal. How would you feel if it was your daughter receiving this kind of treatment and then her employer reacting (or in this case, failing to react) the way they did? Too many people, for far too long have given a pass to verbal abuse, sexual or otherwise. It’s not that hard to be civil and professional in the workplace, and by extension, it should be the same in any personal contact, whether face to face, online, anonymous or not.