I spoke to the people at Ari-ben. They were nice until I mentioned that I was considering ATP. At that point they basically became belligerant, telling me how they don't understand how ATP's system works and that they think they produce poor pilots. To me that was a big red flag. any school that feels they have to put down another in order to get people to come to them strikes me as incredibly defensive and childish. They were rude on the phone, so they will not get my business. ATP on the other hand was couteous, helpful, and encouraged me to look at other schools before committing to one. I've been researching schools for about 10 years now (going to ATP to finish up) and they seem like the best fit for me. I know this thread isn't about ATP but it is worth considering. By the way, I too am a veteran and even though ATP doesn't accept the GI Bill to me it seemed like the best way to go, since the only other fees they ask you to pay are examiner fees (housing is included in their price). They also don't lock you into a contract as an instructor. you stay with them until you feel you are ready to leave (by the same token they won't automatically hire you either).
Just remember to add housing costs on top of whatever Flight Safety and Ari-Ben quote you because it's not included on their price and your VA benefits WILL NOT pay for housing. Remember that I am not telling you that ATP is the best of all these schools....simply that it is the best fit for ME. Good luck in the future!