I like your proactive perspective here. The challenge is real. And one of the biggest problems I've noticed is that people *outside* of the industry have a certain idea of what it would be like to date an airline pilot, but then they learn the reality is much different.

So, in my opinion, the best approach is to seek out someone who is *familar* with the industry, but not necessarily *in* the industry. For example, they might have a close family member who is an airline pilot. They already understand the challenges of the "lifestyle" plus dating an airline pilot increases the chances of your compatibility with the family members.

Admittedly, this approach narrows the available candidates, but if you're thinking about finding a long term partner, you really should be very selective. One failed/toxic relationship is just too costly.

But if you're just dating for fun, then you can afford to be less selective.

Good luck. It's a jungle out there.