This reminds me of the FO who dumped his F/A GF and realizing there was a train wreck in her future. "I can't save any money!" "How are you NOT saving any money?!?!" "I can't." He looks up her expenses - doing nails, facials, massages, almost every trip. "You're living like you're making MORE money than I am. It's not your income that's the problem, it's your expenditures. Quit doing all the massages and facials on the road and put that money into savings. That will be thousands a year." She was more interested in spending money than getting her act together....he bolted.