It doesn't matter what NATO, the US, Europe do.

This is an excerpt copy/pasted from the US State Department on conditions in Russian occupied Ukraine:

"Significant human rights issues in the occupied areas included credible reports of: arbitrary or unlawful killings; enforced disappearances; torture and cruel, inhuman, or degrading treatment or punishment by Russia’s forces or Russia-led proxies; harsh and life-threatening prison conditions and transfer of prisoners to Russia; unjust detention; serious problems with the independence of the occupation’s “judiciary”; political prisoners or detainees"

There's much more. As a Ukrainian, your options are fight or surrender and subject yourself to this. The idea that just surrendering would end the bloodshed is so grossly dishonest and ignores the reality of those currently having to live under Russian control. Remove any and all support to Ukraine and they will still fight until the Russians are gone.