I won’t disagree that some OSW guys walk around with a kool aid mustache. Not as many these days. No matter the reality, we don’t need to be miserable at work either. There’s two ditches. The adopted kids are often in the miserable ditch. Can normally tell they were adopted in the first 2-3 minutes of a pairing. As with all things there are exceptions. I’ve flown with a few really incredible ones… a few.