You’re so interested in how others spend their money but still haven’t posted your W-2, mortgage, and charity info.

Maybe you made less than me as a new hire. I don’t care. I happened to be receiving a pension when I got hired, so yeah I probably made more than you did when you got this job. I don’t care. I don’t care if you don’t give a dime to charity. I don’t care if you tip $100 to “the maids” (a boomer term of if I ever heard one). Your obsession about tipping or having dinner with your FO is really weird. Just pointing that out to you so you can course correct in your personal life.