You still don't get it do you??? The statement regarding you being a moderator is in regards to the fact you stated you want to debate but you criticize more than you debate in this forum. You still haven't answered CG's question and you probably never will. Hell you don't even have to if you want because its a free society. But, don't claim your all for free speech and debating when you ignore request for clarification on statements you've made.
If one is finding that the need to be home every night overrides the career, then one should seek something else.
Thats what some people are trying to do in this forum. APC'ers are posting alternate career choices to help fellow aviators out to help them survive. Some are interested in finding another career outside aviation for whatever reason(family, furlough, survival, etc.). But your un-abashed criticism of other fields sure is contradictory to your support of dicussion.
And I'm sure most of us do appreciate your candor about being single and putting your flying career first in your life. But I'm sure most of us figured that one out a looooong time ago...