I hear ya there, just saying that times now are way different than they once were in terms of time away from home, IA's, GSA/GWOT billets. The quick math for me was 6+ of my 9 remaining years would have been on sea duty with at least 1+ of those unaccompanied in Iraq or Afghanistan and who knows how many deployments. I am very fortunate to have found a contractor job that is pretty secure that allows me to fly in the reserves.