... I have bascially just finished my WOFT packet now... with basically the same type of stuff as you paulymeadows.... except I'm only 2 years younger.. having said that the packet, like mr. greggo said, is not an overnight process... and it really depends on your recruiter...
kiowapilots.com is a great place to get info ... like it was said before, it is better to read on that forum rather than to comment.. every possible question has been asked there already.
Your recruiter can drag his feet through the process, because from my understanding.. it is just more work.. with equal pay-off as a regular enlistee...... My recruiter has been great scheduling all of the tests, medicals, etc.... it does take a while.. perhaps the biggest was scheduling the actual flight physical....and you have to be very proactive about getting things (you'll have a list of things to get organized) If you are interested, get it done asap. I'm waiting on the December board, so hopefully I'll have a date to go by.. but I can't wait!