Originally Posted by bluesideup
You should not be getting married until you are ready to make that relationship #1 in your life....
That means everything else has to fit around the marriage. If rocketing up the career ladder is your #1 priority, don't get hitched yet.
EXACTLY!
20 is waaaaaay too young to get married, esp to put it under the strains of this business.
If she is the right girl, even if it is the wrong time, there is no rush. The 'right time' will come around and it will feel as right in 2 or 3 years as it does now.
Do yourself a favor and worry about how you are going to support the two of you financially before you get hitched. (LOL...on 18K/yr) Get your job/career situated first!