The key here is you should be catching the advice people are throwing at you to when you are acting really nerdy. Shall we keep hinting at it for you guys?

Remember when you told that hot girl in class how you beat superchief91 in a Halo death match and he was the best guy out of 1 million players online to beat? You thought it would really impress her how cool you are. Remember how she never talked to you again? Yeah, it's like that.