Heyas Saab,

I dated a girl who did that. She and I didn't really get a long. I'm fairly laid back, and she was type A to a 't'. The kind that has the cell phone/crackberry glued to her ear all the time. Kinda pushy and fairly obnoxious, at least to me.

I spend a considerable amount of effort to make my life as hassle free as possible...you know, do a lot of stuff in advance, so I can be lazy and lay around. Drove her NUTS.

No reflection on your fiance', tho. I realize that kind of job requires a certain type of "go", but man, you don't have to take it home with you.

Nu