Wow guys...this is still being talked about quite a while later. I do have to say that although I was devistated for the first 36 hrs I did come to realize that it was for the best. To be honest I really did not want to get married...if any of you can imagine the George/Susan thing from Seinfeld then you'll know what it's about.
But with her not understanding what the lifestyle of an airline pilot is like...that is completely false. In fact, she is currently a CFI and is
(was) in my airline's hiring pool. So you really can't blame the breakup on the airline lifestyle.
Once again thanks for the words but now I am OK with the whole thing. PS. It is indeed pretty awesome to be single again.