thank you to everyone who for the support. this is definitely not going to disappear as i thought it would. i am gonna give all options a try. i couldn't afford the lawyers i consulted with but i am still gonna continue looking. not for too long though. i was thinking about going to the local fsdo and trying to just rectify the situation. i made an honest mistake by not reporting it in a timely fashion and i am hoping that showing that in person may be better than trying to write a letter or send emails. phone calls may be impossible.
again thanks all and i will definitely consider every option given.