In my search for "Headset Nirvana" I've tried many, the Bose X was pretty good but I have been very impressed with the "Clearly Aloft" "in ear" headset. You don't know you're wearing it. I got it at Sporty's, they'll let you try it for a couple months and return it if it's not for you.

If you don't mind an in ear type headset, you should like this.

Link:Clarity Aloft™ Aviation Headsets Site