I just read through the party details... and just to clarify:

-"re-inacting" the volleyball scene from Top Gun
-On my days off
-In July when my kids have off school
-SkyHigh in a Hawaiian Shirt
-A visit to an aviation museum with a bunch of aviation dorks, I mean "enthusiasts".
-A large group of people that don't know each other and have the one commonality of spending too much time on the computer chatting on an online internet forum.

Have fun!