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If you value more than anything else being home in Louisville, then I would take the UPS management job.
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If you value more than anything else being home in Louisville, then stay at FedEx. As a line guy at FedEx you can live wherever you want and NEVER have to leave. As management at UPS there are NO guarantees. Have fun living in Anchorage (and I don't mean Anchorage, KY).
Best of luck in your decision.