I am
not advising you to quit your current job. For 99% of people in your situation that would be foolish. For 1%, it is a better life - I'm in the 1%.
At 28, I owned my own business, made enough to fly plenty on the weekends in a plane I had 50% share in, and was home every night, albeit very late most of the time.
But I was miserable. Absolutely miserable. And it was bad enough that it was even affecting my wife and our marriage. She'll tell you that if I hadn't changed careers, we probably wouldn't be married anymore.
For me, the pay cut and the nights away were a tradeoff I and
my family were willing to make. My wife supported me 110% even though it meant huge sacrifices for her. I am home more now than I was when I was the owner, and I'm far less stressed and in general a much more pleasant person
, but I'm out of town if something urgent comes up.
If you aren't okay with being out of town, you need to rethink your plan. It won't work long-term doing out and backs. Really, it won't. Best of luck.