Originally Posted by
Toast1927
Also FWIW when someone says the can't afford to contribute, then starts talking about the airplane, boat, or vacation house it is pretty easy to tell they are self absorbed.
Who cares whether someone is self-absorbed? I feel like I'm talking to a wall!
It is ABSOLUTELY none of your business how someone chooses to spend his or her legally earned money!
So what if they have all the above? Good for them; it has no bearing on my life. Perhaps because of all the above, they can't afford to participate. It's their right and their choice. Why concern yourself with what others have or don't have?
