Why are you calling your recruiter? He has an e-mail address, use that. This forces him to put his reply in writing and gives you documentation of his reply.

Also, the Air Force has a chain of command. Your recruiter has a boss. Ask him for his boss' contact info (both e-mail and phone). Send a non-emotional, professional e-mail to your recruiter outlining your concerns and courtesy copy his boss. In the e-mail, be sure you make a request to be kept updated via e-mail.

Good luck.