LAFF, you have a lot of class.

Soon2BFO, I would not be in any matrimonial rush. Your girlfriend has already expressed her doubts about the airline life, yet you say that NOT flying is not an option. If you caved in to her wishes, or she to yours, you'll both end up unhappy and resentful. You said that you'd rather be married sooner rather than later. I don't know what your personal or religious beliefs are, but perhaps you could try living together in a committed relationship for a few years to see if both of you have what it takes to go the distance. Believe me, divorce isn't exactly pleasant and it is expensive, particularly if you have assets. If your personal or religious beliefs go against living together, then I would not rush into marriage under the circumstances. I think that both of you should really talk and try to figure out what you both expect from this relationship and be totally honest about your feelings, as well as the reality of the paths that you choose. As an adult, your parents feelings about wanting you to be married should not come into play here.

You didn't say how old you are, but if you are young, do not rush into anything. Best of luck to you!