USMCFLYR said it much more tactfully than I would have. Insulting, absolutely. Moreover, it is a BAD practice to start labeling any part of aviation with kitchy little terms that the ignorant talking heads can get a hold of. Soon the ignorants will be arguing to make laws restricting "hobby pilots."

Getting back to the topic of this thread, any career can be a soul breaker. It's just a matter of what flavor of BS you can tolerate. Perfect example being N5139's regional acquaintences vs skidoomike's friend.

My perspective test is trying to imagine myself at 75 reflecting on my life. Will I have regrets over the things I'm doing now.

N5139, very nicely said.