So these guys have time to play with their kids at work, but they don't have time to do their jobs right?

The NYC TRACON and respective airport towers are the worst about Heavy to RJ separation. All they care about is landing as many as they can, screw safety! I've been vectored 3 1/2 miles behind a 767, and when we initiated the go around due to lack of separation (getting the crap kicked out of us by wake), they actually had the balls to get mad. Those guys are going to cause a serious accident one of these days, and until then the Feds aren't going to do a thing about it.