3000 hrs is generally a contractual requirement that can be waved at any time. ICAO is 2 for 1 on PIC for the 750 requirement to fly outside of CONUS. (2 hrs of SIC will equate to one hr of PIC for the ICAO PIC min)
As for this detective snooping.......Good job, and if it is Tim, man up and take responsibility. Apologize to those you hurt. People start to forget and forgive when that happens, and until then, the scab will never form.