As a starter have her verbalize the flows as she does them... years since I flew a carb'd single but when configuring for landing have her say out loud...

GMC - "Gas - Both; Mixture - Rich; Carb Heat - On"

Then while rolling out on final...

"Runway in sight 12 o'clock, will cross threshold at XX feet, touchdown at (specify point on the runway)"

Or something like that.

When you have anyone "male or female" verbalize their decisions they will follow through on them, as if commanding themselves...