It's a pity that the forum doesn't save threads from a few years ago. I could have pointed you at those as we had some threads on here that were over 10 pages long all about the pros and cons of Emirates. The information has changed a little since then because in the last 18 months we are working our tails off. Current schedules are averaging 95 hours a month. It's promised that will come down to 82-85 by the end of the year, but that remains to be seen. The fact of the matter is the company is trying to get the full limit of 900 hours per 12 months out of each crew member. The fatigue that is causing due to the nature of our flying is not sustainable over the long term. Therefore most pilots here are looking for alternatives.
In regards to school costs, the American schools are the most expensive in Dubai. There are three and they all have websites so you can research them yourself. The American School of Dubai, Dubai American Academy, and Universal American School. The EK allowance doesn't even come close to covering the cost for grades 1 through 5, after grade 6 it gets better. If your wife is a teacher and can get a job at one of the schools then tuition would be free for your children. I know at least 3 people who have done that so they don't have the education cost plus they get the extra income.
Dubai is a biggish city, but the layout is much like a south Florida style where the city stretches along the beach for many miles. The road system is in a constant state of flux due to the rapid development, but it's pretty reasonable compared to many parts of the world. It's the bad driving by many that causes a lot of accidents and fatalities. Also much like south Florida, but worse.
There really should be marital arts schools because the divorce rate is pretty high
Typhoonpilot