you mentioned you had kids, and if you wanted good public schools if you're not going to send them to the Private Schools here in NJ, I would recommend Northern Bergen County such as RiverVale, Hillsdale, or Tenafly. With the state of the housing market, nice houses are going for pretty cheap in New Jersey prices. Plus from the tip of Bergen County you are 50 minutes away from Morristown and you are 30 minutes, 40 with traffic from the city.