First off - ATC will assign whatever speed will work for them on the arrival, I highly doubt they are catering to ASA crews.
As to the folks that rolled long, maybe the Captain was a d**k - or maybe they had a legitimate reason to roll to the end.
BTW - how do you know the tower "considered" this an intentional attempt to make you go around?
you sound butt-hurt about something else; trust me, 95% of ASA crews are not intentionally crampin' your style.