Debkeller, I'm afraid that any kind of reasonable dialogue with BTDI is not possible. I believe that he will simply twist what you say to suite his own lies. For reasons that no one understands clearly, he seems to hate anything to do with Avantair, and wants to hurt the company and all of its employees at any cost. Attacking the wife of one of our pilots is a new low, but I am not surprised. You were just a new target. It is your choice of course, but I believe that he has sunk so low that the best thing to do is leave him alone. Sad, I know. All the best.
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