Originally Posted by
Stryker
I learned an important lesson planning for my wedding... HEAR ME LOUD AND CLEAR!!!... STAY OUT OF IT!!! whatever she wants, you reply "yes dear"... Your life will be SOOO much easier... That is until there is something she ACTUALLY wants your opinion on (which probably wont be but once or twice).... Just give her carte blanche (within reason) so you dont have to make any decisions...
The only thing I insisted on being apart of was the guest list... that is... slicing many people off of it. Another couple good rules of the planning is to
1.) invite the rich/most likely to give a big gift family members/friends over the poor ones.
2.) only have an open bar if a) someone else if paying for it or b) it's an extremely religious family that doesn't drink much