Purdue is a fantastic school (I am biased), with a much smaller flight program (only 75 students admitted per year) than any of your other 3 "preferred" schools. Its also a HELL of a lot warmer in winter than UND or WMU, and while very much a midwestern Big 10 school, let's just say the male-female student ratio is substantially better than ERAU.
1 hour drive from Indy, <3hr drive from Chicago if you want to go to a "big city".
The entire aviation program (flight, management & maintenance) is about 600 total students out of 38,000 undergrads; I think that provides a diversity of the collegiate experience that is difficult to match unless at a school of comparable size.
Again, I am biased...but any of those schools can provide you with your ratings and an excellent college education.
Good luck!