Hi,
Just read your post and you sound A LOT like me when I was your age. Having said that, I also see that Embry Riddle is on your list. That happens to be my alma matter, so I may be a little partial, but do consider the service academies and a possible military career, it's not a bad way to go. Also take it from someone who knows, consider a double major in something along with aviation. You might not want to hear that, but in about 10 years or so, you'll wish you would have listened. :/
Good luck with everything!