Originally Posted by
voodiloquist
"I really, really want to join..." -- You sound like a chick...grow a pair dude.
+1
By the time you would actually get hired, go to pilot training (if you want to be a pilot), etc... you guys are going to be totally different people - who knows if you'll grow apart while you're together?
If you let her pull the strings in your life... you're going to find yourself standing in the Bed, Bath, and Beyond parking lot putting your new tablecloths in your minivan looking up in the sky as a couple Vipers pass over on their way back from the range wishing you once had the cojones to do it up.