Thanks for the advice guys. I broke up with her early this morning and all is good and I think we are both happier and better off. Big sense of relief from a relationship with a lot of other problems and this pushed it over the edge for me. I'm can fly in the civilian world but not in the military world due to a mild color deficiency so...I'm joining the army reserves as an RN when I graduate college soon. I would love to fly in the military but I will have many great opportunities to serve my country as a nurse. I will be darn proud to wear the uniform.