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Direct2: Having gone through this myself and reading what you're saying, my best advice is fire your attorney and hire the best Family Law attorney you can find. There has been a lot of good advice on workable visitation schedules, etc. Your soon to be ex seems to want to fight. You need to be the cooler head and remember this is about making a bad situation as good as you can for the KIDS. (which you seem to be doing) However, this sometimes means making sure you are properly represented...
Droopy