Nova,
Keep up the work. I find that most "old school" men are intimidated at best, just completely disgusted that a female can do their big man job just as well, if not better.
In my airline experience, I have only run across a handful of people that have given me any sort of gruff about my job. Most people think it's really cool that I'm a pilot! I am also a single mom of three, so if you ever want to talk about juggling things....lol. And no, my ex did not leave me, I left him and pursued this on my own. I chose a job and have the seniority to be home every night and it really works for my family. The money and stability is really the only hard thing.
Be strong, keep your chin up - you can do it. And you can have anything you want in the process.
FL