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Originally Posted by Skygirl
It's true that there seems to be a shortage of good "straight" single men here in the Bay Area, and there certainly are plenty of professional women around here. The thing is though, that most of us professional women here in the Bay Area tend to work a fair amount and you would also have to be ok with that. I work at least 50 hours a week and travel a fair amount. The last guy I dated was a nice guy but he couldn't seem to deal with that. The bright side of a woman who works a lot, is it gives you plenty of time to play golf or do whatever on your days off. I'm sure that there are more than a few women around here who wouldn't mind coming home to a nice pilot guy after a long day.
Speaking of work, time to start my 10-12 hour day.
Conversly, there are alot of women who can't deal with the fact that airline pilots are gone alot. Even the women who are the "strong, independent, career type who just want companionship". Although 50 hours a week is alot, many airline pilots can be gone for 75-80 hrs a week, sometimes more. Now toss in the high possibility that alot of us cannot get weekends off.
On average I'll spend atleast 3000 hours a year away from home. That would be equal to a 12 hour day, 5 days a week for somebody with a "normal" m-f job. If someone works 50 hrs a week at a m-f job that comes out to about 2600 hrs. That's on the high side for the m-f job and not subtracting out vacations or holidays off.
Also, our job is not as flexible as many think. I have yet to hear of an airline that has "flex" time, or whatever you wish to call it. If my 10 hour day turned into a 16 hour day, I can't just take 6 hours off next week or whenever I choose. This one is my favorite, you are dating someone and they ask, "can't you just take the day off?" Sure, in the middle of a 4 day trip, no problem. Or, "can't you get somebody else to work for you?". Again, sure. Let me get some guy who has just been away from his home and family for 4 or 5 days and ask him to spend even more time away. He'll jump at the chance.