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Speaking of fairness, I don't always act juvenile around here, which is what I feel you are implying. And I am hardly the only one who can act that way.
Fwiw, a far better approach...to me...would be to say something like...
"SayAlt, you are clearly a savvy and well-spoken guy. I think you would be far more effective sticking to the facts than engaging in what I see as juvenile responses. I, for one, would take you far more seriously if you did, and I want to do that. We NEED your voice here, just not the antics."
This is what I feel you are genuinely trying to say. But instead you attempted shaming. I dont' respond well to shaming. At all. Especially when I don't feel I have anything to be ashamed of.
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Can I claim that for future replies? If I were you I would copyright it. But it is well said. Originally Posted by SayAlt
That's true. It does "unsell" itself.Speaking of fairness, I don't always act juvenile around here, which is what I feel you are implying. And I am hardly the only one who can act that way.
Fwiw, a far better approach...to me...would be to say something like...
"SayAlt, you are clearly a savvy and well-spoken guy. I think you would be far more effective sticking to the facts than engaging in what I see as juvenile responses. I, for one, would take you far more seriously if you did, and I want to do that. We NEED your voice here, just not the antics."
This is what I feel you are genuinely trying to say. But instead you attempted shaming. I dont' respond well to shaming. At all. Especially when I don't feel I have anything to be ashamed of.
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I think I'm going to bow out of these discussions for now and go into read only mode.